The only reason he believes or does not believe in love is because of the way he loves.
From his point of view, everyone in the relationship provides what others need to become more of who they are.
The choices he makes define him only until he makes new ones.
He is a witness to the life unfolding by itself.
He is validating what is depressing and focusing on what is a blessing.
Replacing the chase of the illusion of power with acceptance changed his life upside down again.
He is getting pickier and pickier about what he thinks. He is grateful.